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Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Ed W on July 04, 2007, 09:03:13 PM
Last week, my daughter returned from a double date to say that the restaurant they'd visited added a gratuity to the bill before presenting it to them.  Now, I can understand doing so for a large group, but four people?  To make matters worse, they received lousy service.  Are customers obligated to pay a gratuity like this, or can they lawfully refuse?
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: cannon_fodder on July 05, 2007, 08:02:23 AM
What restaurant and was it indicated anywhere before they agreed to eat there?

If it stated something like 'gratuity added on all tickets' then they are probably screwed.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Ed W on July 05, 2007, 08:37:18 AM
This happened at Olive Garden, but I don't know which one.  I do know they add a gratuity for large parties, but I'd think a party of 4 wouldn't qualify.  Then again, it's been a couple of years since I went in there.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: cannon_fodder on July 05, 2007, 09:00:09 AM
I've never had a gratuity added.  Been there with a party of 3 in the past few months.

I can not say I have been there with a party of 4 in a long while (that I remember).  

To solve this great mystery I called the Olive Garden on memorial.  Holding now (not sure why, its 9am... they probably aren't that busy)... still holding.  

"Do you add gratuity to all tickets or only for certain party sizes?"

"Only for parties of 8 and up..."

So there ya go.  They got screwed.  Call the manager and *****.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: billintulsa on July 05, 2007, 09:47:39 AM
I don't know what the laws are concerning this, so I can't speak to that.

I would, however, write a letter to the offending company telling them that their practice of billing the gratuity is somewhat questionable, and then remind them that a TIP (as per current custom) is to reward good service.  Since in this case the service wasn't given, inform them of a choice to move your business elsewhere (if in fact that is what you've decided to do).

But in any event, if you let them know of your experience in writing, they are more likely to do something about it.  If not then by all means, take your business elsewhere.

Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Conan71 on July 05, 2007, 10:00:57 AM
For a second there, I thought maybe Ed's daughter had been to Aleoli's. [B)]

I've never had bad service at the Olive Garden and haven't noticed them cramming gratuity either.  Might have been a fluke or the server knew his/her service was so crappy that they wouldn't get a tip otherwise.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Ed W on July 05, 2007, 11:42:24 AM
Well...I'm pretty sure she'd rather not contact the young man involved.  It was the date from hell, as far as she was concerned.  They may have been hosed because they're teens and twenty-somethings.

I offered to crush the young man like a beer can, but she declined that too.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: rwarn17588 on July 05, 2007, 12:01:14 PM
A few late-night restaurants I've been to do add a gratuity after a certain time (usually after 11 p.m.) and have a sign indicating such.

I'm certain this was done so the late-night help isn't continually stiffed by all the drunks wolfing down their pancakes.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: RecycleMichael on July 05, 2007, 12:11:25 PM
11:00 PM!

I thought all of Tulsa was asleep at 11:00 PM.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: DM on July 05, 2007, 12:53:20 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ed W


I offered to crush the young man like a beer can, but she declined that too.




Yes, and be sure to claim self defense. Works everytime. [B)]
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: tulsascoot on July 07, 2007, 10:13:21 PM
As a former waiter and former employee of Olive Garden, I know that adding gratuity to less than 8 people is against their policy. It could cause that waiter to get fired if you told them.

As to why it was there, that's easy. Olive Garden is a common place for high school kids to go for dates, proms, etc. It's also common to get insultingly poor tips from young kids, unless their parents have taught them about proper gratuity, which I believe parents should do. I was always impressed when the kids from Cascia Hall came in; they almost always left me 15-20%. I was usually lucky to get $1 or $2 from the kids from Rogers, Hale, or Central.

So it wasn't right for them to do that and it was definitely against company policy. The waiter just assumed he'd get a crappy from that table. However, if he intended to put the gratuity on from the start, he should have given proper service. Then again, the Olive Garden will hire anyone, so don't expect the best service always. It's a crap shoot.

And please, everyone, teach your kids about how to tip!
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: joiei on July 08, 2007, 11:31:44 PM
You can always ask management to remove the added tip if it is not posted, and then tip according the the level of service recieved.  If they refuse to remove the tip, then call your credit card company.  

If the service is even adequate then I will tip 20%, if it sucks, then I do not tip, if the food was great and the service lacking, I will send the tip to the kitchen.
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Rowdy on July 09, 2007, 08:31:44 AM
This brings up another issue.  Sonic Drive-Ins. I have heard this split two ways. Do you or don't you tip the Sonic people when they bring out your food?  The argument could be made that they bring you your food but on the other hand, some look at it that you don't tip because they really aren't waiting on you.

Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: brunoflipper on July 09, 2007, 08:58:31 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Rowdy

This brings up another issue.  Sonic Drive-Ins. I have heard this split two ways. Do you or don't you tip the Sonic people when they bring out your food?  The argument could be made that they bring you your food but on the other hand, some look at it that you don't tip because they really aren't waiting on you.



i always tip carhops
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: Conan71 on July 09, 2007, 09:04:15 AM
Now you have the option if you are too cheap to tip car hops you can go through the drive-through. [;)]

Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: cannon_fodder on July 09, 2007, 09:19:50 AM
I only tip car hops if they are on roller skates. [:D]
Title: A question about gratuities...
Post by: carltonplace on July 09, 2007, 12:03:56 PM
If your service sucks it is more appropriate to tell the manager than to with hold the tip. Not tipping makes you look like the bad guy and the server learns nothing, but they think you are a cheapskate. If you don't feel like telling the manager leave a note that explains why you chose not to tip. In either case, make your complaints very specific: "You did not smile", "you were slow returning to take our order" "you never refilled our drinks nor asked us how the food was", "you poured coffee on me causing 2nd degree burns and then kissed my boo-boo".   Be cognizant of how busy they are and how many tables they are tending.