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Started by RecycleMichael, December 19, 2011, 12:37:18 PM

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RecycleMichael

Just wanted to say thanks to all who post and read topics on this forum. I really enjoy all of our conversations and feel smarter and more involved by the words shared on this forum. 

I hope each of you have a special holiday season and get to spend Christmas Day with loved ones.

Peace on Earth. Good will to all.
Power is nothing till you use it.

guido911

Someone get Hoss a pacifier.

custosnox

Merry Christmas to you as well.  Since discovering these forums years ago I have become more involved with my community, and dare I say, more enlightened.  

Ed W

Have a wonderful Christmas, Michael.

This is probably as good a time as any to tell our Christmas story.

Mary and I moved here many summers ago.  We knew no one in Tulsa, so we had to rely on each other.  I'd met a few folks at work, of course, but that first Christmas here we were pretty much on our own.  A baby was on the way, due to arrive sometime in February, so Mary wasn't able to do much in the way of shopping.  Our budget wouldn't support it anyway.  Money was tight.  We couldn't afford a Christmas tree, so she decorated a lamp!

Christmas Eve seemed especially bleak.  We called family back home and talked, but it just isn't the same as sitting across the dinner table from loved ones.  Both of us come from large families, so it was normal to be surrounded by a crowd through the holidays.  Once, my family actually cooked two turkeys for Christmas dinner, and I counted 35 people sitting down to eat at Mary's house.  Being alone was a bit of a shock.

After hanging up the telephone that Christmas Eve, the apartment seems colder and emptier than ever.  It was about 8PM, and I thought it would be best to get her out of there before we both broke down in tears.  We decided to go out for dinner.

It's hard to find an open restaurant that late on Christmas Eve, but we managed it.  I knew the staff would be anxious to go home to their families, but our waitress took one look at Mary's bulging tummy, and treated her as if she were a daughter of her own.  There was no hurry, no urgency, just a lot of "hons", "dearies", and "sweeties" - all directed at Mary, of course, not me.  We were treated like family, not customers, and it's something indelibly etched in my memory.  I don't remember much else about that Christmas, but the kindness of a waitress, a stranger to both of us, will be with me forever.

So be good to those you meet, not just at this time of the year, but always.  We never know when we might just touch someone's life in an unexpected way.

And Merry Christmas to all!
Ed

May you live in interesting times.

guido911

Someone get Hoss a pacifier.

custosnox

Quote from: guido911 on December 19, 2011, 02:18:50 PM

Saw that the other day.  Made me think of the year my oldest made the comment that she didn't get enough for Christmas.  Ever since then she has been grateful for any little thing she gets.  I often wonder if it had anything to do with me going through the living room and taking everything she had gotten away from her, right down the slippers on her feet.  She did get them back, days later, but I was not going to stand for any kind of ingratitude from a child that got something for no more reason that that she was loved.  Last year I was unable to get any of my kids anything for Christmas (in fact, didn't even get to see them, that was a hard Christmas for me) or their birthdays.  I explained that I just couldn't do it, and every one of them understood.  This year they are getting one thing each, nothing fancy, yet I'm excited to see their reactions.

ZYX

Merry Christmas everyone!

Sent from my brand new iPad!

nathanm

Quote from: ZYX on December 25, 2011, 08:17:56 AM
Sent from my brand new iPad!

Nice... ;)

Merry Christmas to you and everyone else. Yes, I'm posting on TNF on Christmas morning. I guess that's what happens when nobody else gets up "early".
"Labor is prior to and independent of capital. Capital is only the fruit of labor, and could never have existed if labor had not first existed. Labor is the superior of capital, and deserves much the higher consideration" --Abraham Lincoln

custosnox

Quote from: nathanm on December 25, 2011, 09:33:08 AM
Nice... ;)

Merry Christmas to you and everyone else. Yes, I'm posting on TNF on Christmas morning. I guess that's what happens when nobody else gets up "early".
Not the only one here.

dbacks fan

Merry Christmas to all. Hope that your day is filled with family and joy!

Red Arrow

Merry Christmas everyone.
 

GG

Merry Christmas!

May all of you have a healthy and prosperous New Year!!
Trust but verify

guido911

I have freakin had it with teenagers getting pissed off at one of their own because they got more gifts. Sheesh. Grow up.
Someone get Hoss a pacifier.

Breadburner

 

Teatownclown

Quote from: guido911 on December 25, 2011, 08:55:19 PM
I have freakin had it with teenagers getting pissed off at one of their own because they got more gifts. Sheesh. Grow up.

Little Guido's?